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Comment on It Is Time by JesseMacGregor-Jones

JesseMacGregor-Jones — Mon, 20 May 2013 01:15:17 +0000

Thanks, Jamie Ray. I’m glad you have found a happy place, beyond the curtain of the relationship you had with your mother. I do know what it is like, being kept in that dark place and finally being able to push the curtains aside and see the sunlight beyond. I’m happy for you!

Comment on It Is Time by Jamie Ray

Jamie Ray — Mon, 20 May 2013 01:10:30 +0000

I was raised by an abusive narcissistic mother (next post is about her), and can not imagine what it would be like to be lovers with someone like that. Narcissists are toxic and impossible to separate from (even after you leave them) because they view every action you take as if it is a personal insult and about them. They can not end or drop an argument. I thank my butch stars that I ended up with Donna (she isn’t perfect but then neither am I). At least she is sensitive about how I was raised, and very forgiving. Best of luck in your next home.

Comment on It Is Time by JesseMacGregor-Jones

JesseMacGregor-Jones — Sun, 19 May 2013 19:45:46 +0000

Yes!

Comment on It Is Time by Sin Dixon

Sin Dixon — Sun, 19 May 2013 13:09:42 +0000

Hi Jesse
Sounds like an awesome place to live. Are you taking about St Petersburg? I truly admire who you are and your philosophy on life. I wish for you nothing but peace and happiness

Comment on It Is Time by JesseMacGregor-Jones

JesseMacGregor-Jones — Sat, 18 May 2013 20:36:44 +0000

Thanks so much for saying such nice things! I just try to be real. You know, many times in my life I was unable to be who I was and just “be” in general. I hide nothing now. What people see is truly what they get!

Comment on Dear Child, It Is A Mad World … by lesbiannefree

lesbiannefree — Sat, 18 May 2013 20:14:47 +0000

Jesse, Your story touches me deeply and is a beautiful story, beautifully written. Real love lives on and on. Thank you for your open-hearted honesty and sharing. x

Comment on It Is Time by lesbiannefree

lesbiannefree — Sat, 18 May 2013 19:58:57 +0000

Jesse, I’m having trouble finding the words. I admire your courage, your tenacity and persistence and dedication to yourself as you slogged through finding your way back to center. I’ve known the suicidal despair, self-doubt, and confusion. I’ve known the joy of finding bits and pieces of myself while trying to find me. So many experiences you mention I’ve also known and sometimes I’m amazed at just how we really are not alone even when we “know” we are. Keep on being you the only way you know how, with gut wrenching honesty and integrity. I love hearing wonder and humor from you , too, and joy as you look forward to your new life. It’s great that you found a creative outlet while you were doing this inner work, and I look forward to reading some of your books. Thank you. I wish you a wonderfully enriching and fulfilling life as you move forward and southward where it is warm. smile. x

Comment on It Is Time by cookie5683

cookie5683 — Sat, 18 May 2013 18:37:47 +0000

I so feel your path!!! I understand what it is like to be with yet choose to be without and how freedom is found in that choice. I think it is hard for ppl to grasp because they must experience it but won’t. It takes courage and a little hint of crazy to face the person you are and embrace. I respect you deeply.

Comment on It Is Time by Trish

Trish — Sat, 18 May 2013 17:38:21 +0000

I love what you said in there about ‘lies of omission’ Jesse…too many people believe that by not saying, then they arent lying, and thats just total bulls**t…Great read, and soo very glad you’re happy within your heart finally x

Comment on Dear Child, It Is A Mad World … by Trish

Trish — Fri, 17 May 2013 14:29:11 +0000

I love that you’re able to be in this love again Jesse a beautiful soul deserves a beautiful soul xo love to you all x